Can 'O Worms

Yeah...that's what I got myself when I allowed open questioning...

First things first though, Happy Singles Awareness Day (SAD) to all!

Second, I went to see my future home [hopefully] yesterday after work. Here's the info:

850 sq. ft.

Wood Burning Fireplace

Customized Closets Throughout

FREE Basic Cable

Dishwasher, Disposal, Refrigerator w/Ice maker, Stove/Microwave

12x16 Master Bedroom

Garden Tub (access to bathroom from bedroom and living room)

Large Covered Patio With Swing

Access to 2 Pools & Clubhouse

Car Wash Area

Volleyball Court

Tennis Court

So, the only thing left to do, is turn in this credit application (ahhhh, scary...damn those student loans....and my lack of concern to pay them back!!)

Let's cross our fingers on that one. If I get approved, I plan to move in March 15th. Woot!

What else? Oh yeah, this'll be my last post until...probably Monday, possibly Sunday depending on what time I get back.

And I guess that's enough with the preliminaries, I'm sure you're here to read the 'Questions & Answers' segment...or, my 'can o' worms.' So here goes:

Requisitioner: Sean
Question: Will you marry me? No need to keep me anonymous...I want the world to know that you're the most dee-zeye-ur-abel wo-man on the planet earff! :) lol
Answer: YES!! Absolutely...as long as you promise that we can have our wedding reception at McDonald's and I can have alllll the value meals I want...AND supersize em (even though I don't think they supersize anymore, make it happen!). Oh and our wedding cake has to be made out of McDonald's apple pies. Witcher sessy self!! :)

Requisitioner: Ebony
Question: What do you think God's purpose is for you?
Answer: Well, to be quite honest, I've got a few ideas, but I'm not sure which is His purpose for me, or whether or not it could be all of them. As we all know, I'm am pretty deeply in love with MUSIC and I think there's GOT to be a reason for that. Maybe I am supposed to be honing my playing/writing skills so that I can let music be my voice, maybe effect some people's lives using that avenue. That's what I want anyhow. Other than that, I think I'm a great listener and a good advice giver...mostly because I don't take sides, I tend to analyze an entire situation and give my honest opinion. My friends, I think, really appreciate that. So, maybe I was put here to be a good friend, sort of a simple task, but I think to those that I am friends with, it means a lot.

Requisitioner: Marlin
Question: Do you only date white guys? If so, why? And how did you forget my birthday?
Answer: For one, you can't count...that's THREE questions. But uh, good question, I'm sure a lot of inquiring minds would like to know this answer. NO, I do not exclusively date white guys (I honestly don't even have a preference). But I'll explain a little further. I think this sort of goes back to my childhood. I grew up a military brat, which means I was exposed to backgrounds-a-plenty. I was never around JUST black folks, or ANY one particular group. Growing up my friends ranged in race...at one point my best friend was a black girl named Olasha...next was Lucy, a Korean chick...a Puerto Rican chick named Michelle when I lived in Panama...a white girl named Sarah when I lived in Hawaii (Happy Birthday Sarah--she's STILL one of my best-friends)...I had friends of Samoan descent, Chinese, Fijian, Filipino, I mean, you name it, I knew 'em. I wasn't really solely surrounded by black culture until my stint at Alabama A&M University...and it was like a whole new world. One I loved, but at the same time...in the aftermath of it all, I found that I had to lose myself in order to fit in. Musically (and pretty much all around) I've always been really diverse...when I was at A&M, if I had friends riding in my car, or even riding down the block with my windows down and music blasting, if I was listening to Creed, or Alanis, or Third Eye Blind...I always got ragged on. So, I stopped listening to that stuff and started bumping a lot of hip-hop. Anyways, after some time of feeling less than myself, I finally realized that I'm never going to please everyone, I've got one life and I've got to live it for me, and up to my standards, no matter what questions it may raise in others. So, that's just a little background information. Who I date, has a lot to do with where I hang out and the things I'm interested in. I'm usually in the downtown area, and around here, that's predominately white. So, that's who I get approached by. I'm not opposed to dating anyone of any race, so long as there is a mutual attraction involved. Literally, I've dated just about every 'type' of guy there is and that's not limited to race. I'm equal opportunity baby! Next, I didn't FORGET your birthday, I never knew it (despite what you may THINK), so ha!

Requisitioner: Joe
Question: How long can you go without having sexual relations with a man?
Answer: Uh was the 'with a man' specification really necessary? lol. Anyways, I think the longest I've actually gone w/out was a year...I don't remember, it was one or two years. At least one year though I know for sure. As far as how long I COULD go, I'd say that's sort of up in the air...however long I deem necessary I guess.

Requisitioner: Maurice
Question: Did you get some last night?
Answer: No.

Requisitioner: Kel B.
Question: Me & another bandmate who shall remain nameless, are interested in knowing when was the last time you had sex?
Answer: The last time I 'got some' was not more than 8 weeks ago...if you two ever bothered to read my blog...and read of 'run-ins' with "Ryan" that could put you in the ballpark.

Requisitioner: Candice
Question: What's the difference between loving someone, and being in love?
Answer: I'm certainly NO expert in this area...but...I have dated and had love for/loved a few guys. But there was something totally different about being IN love with MP. And I'm not even sure I can put it into words, it's moreso something FELT...something you just KNOW. And it sort of sneaks up on you and in a single second you just realize that it's there. I think loving someone, is having a deep and genuine concern for them and their well-being. Being IN love, you're more likely to accept/put up with things that you would otherwise, eighty-six someone were it any other individual. Like I said, I honestly can't really explain it, it's just something you know. And sometimes you don't even realize it until much later...when you have something to compare it to. Hopefully that wasn't too ass-backwards of an answer.

Requisitioner: Jose
Question: When are you coming to New York.
Answer: I'm not sure. I want to make it before the year is out though.

Requisitioner: Rachael
Question: If you could kiss anyone, who would it be, and why?
Answer: Pharrell Williams. Hands down like 6:30. Why? Because he's MY 'Ideal' guy, has been for yeeeeeeeeears. Plus, just LOOK at him AND those inviting lips!

Requisitioner: Bab
Question: What would you do on a 24hour date?
Answer: Well, that's sort of a broad question, considering I don't know if I have location and/or fund limitations...and seasonal/weather info. But, I'll assume you mean around my neck of the woods, and I'm gonna say this is a summer date. Well, for what I'd want to do, it'd probably be best to skip breakfast...so, maybe meet up around 8, and drive to Pell City for skydiving. We'd arrive around 10 or 11...give an hour for paperwork and training...jump...grab a late lunch at my favorite restaurant California Pizza Kitchen. Drive back to Huntsville...it's about 4 or so now...rent some movies and go to the grocery store to pick up some items to cook for dinner...make dinner together and watch movies. The end. Viola!

Requisitioner: Giovanni
Question: Can you tell me what this formula is used 4: Fnet= (M1-M2)g = DMg
Answer: No, I sure in the hell cannot.

Requisitioner: Erica
Question: Have you ever had butt sex?
Answer: First of all, I hate you for asking me this question. Second, I hate me for promising to answer all questions. And third, I hope my mother never comes across this particular entry. Ugh...alright, I consider myself to be a pretty open-minded person, but there are just some things that I deem as unnatural...and having ANYTHING going INTO what's only made for things to come OUT of, is one of them. However, I did once let the ex-factor talk me into 'trying' it, which only took about .5 seconds (literally) to confirm that it was not something I was interested in.

Requisitioner: Errick
Question: If the way you died was an explanation for the way you lived, how would you kick the bucket?
Answer: Drunk? KIDDING. Okay, seriously. That's probably the best question that ANYONE posed to me. Definitely the most difficult to answer. I'd probably get killed playing electric guitar in the rain. At least I'd die doing something I love, and am known for.

Requisitioner: Wayne
Question: Do you still luv me even though I don't live there?
Answer: Of course, you're my boy forever!

Requisitioner: Swoll
Question: How am I so fortunate to have such a beautiful, talented friend like you in my life? Why do you love me so? Out of all of my friends, when you tell me "I Love You" I feel it, and I know you ain't lying.
Answer: Hey, it's an easy question! First of all, thank you. Second of all, the truth is, you're not the lucky one, I am. Thirdly...why do I love you so? Because you know me. You KNOW-ME-KNOW-ME. Whatsmore, you know me, and you STILL love and accept me IN SPITE OF ME. You don't sugar-coat anything for my benefit. Before I tell you about something, I pretty much already know your response, and vice versa. We could go for a whole year without talking, and pick back up right where we left off, without skipping a beat. On the same note, we could go months without talking and then out of the blue,when something is bothering you, without even having talked to you, I will get this innate aching that's something is wrong, and I'll check in with you...and sure enough, there'll be something that you're going through. Some people are just born friends, we are that. God knew I needed you in my life, and vice versa. I love you because I was born to love you and I always will.

Requisitioner: Ari
Question: If you got pregnant from a one night stand, would you keep the baby?
Answer: Throughout my life, there's a LOT of lessons I've learned...none more important than to remember not to state what you'd "never" do. I don't know WHAT I'd do in that situation. I'd hope that I'd make wiser decisions that would avoid putting myself in that situation to begin with. But, no one is perfect. I'd also hope that, if I DID find myself in such a precarious situation, that I'd make the decision to keep the baby, because I don't condone abortion. On the other hand, I can't say what I'd "never" do. Because there have been far too many things that I HAVE done that I swore I never would. I guess I'm human afterall.

Requisitioner: Honorae aka "Ray Ray Jankins" lmao
Question: What made you start doing music?
Answer: Simple answer. My love for music. Five years ago, as a joke, a friend of mine wrote a blog in "my" voice (he wrote it as if to say "here's an example of one of Robyn's blogs)...within that blog he wrote, he said:

"...On a serious 'note' I love music! music was my refuge when I was younger(and still is). I would crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness. It just takes me to a place where I feel safe..."

I'd say even though he was being sarcastic, that pretty much sums it up for me. THAT is the kind of power that music has in my life. It lives in my bones and resonates in my soul.

Requisitioner: Neal
Question: What do you do in your room when you're all alone?
Answer: 85% of the time, I'm sitting at the computer, with my back to the tv. If I'm on the computer, I'm either surfing ebay, myspace, http://www.sofreshforums.com/, ah, chatting, making youtube vids, whatevers...also, at least one of my guitars is usually sitting beside me, so between surfing and waiting for pages to load, I'll randomly pick up the guitar and strum a tune. The other 15% of the time, I'm in bed. If I'm laying down, I'm either watching tv, on my way to sleep, asleep, or just waking up. Sorry for such a 'boring' answer, but, I promised to tell the truth..and that's the God's honest truth :)
And well, I think that concludes the question/answer session. Hopefully I've answered all your questions to a fair degree. If not, get over it :)
Anyways, you hooligans enjoy the next three-four days without me, actually, I just MIGHT post tomorrow if I have time. If not, I'll 'see' ya when I get back.

VIDEO OF THE DAY-Because it's the holiday of love..and this is one of my favorite love songs:




Love ya'll.

RMwaaaaaaaaaaaaah

SSS, Out!

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